Even for the things that we have no control over, we are responsible as to how those things get to affect us, what we make of them is totally up to us.

If life has screwed you over, you’re not a victim. You’re responsible for taking it and have it make you better and stronger. If you’re sitting in a corner, alone, crying, know that you can talk to me and that I feel deeply for you. But also know that it’s your choice to do so, and you can choose to live through that pain in a different way. It’s a choice.